Ladies, I really think that we can all agree on this – heartbreak will affect you and it will change you. YES, in both good and bad way. After a breakup, you have a totally different perspective of love and you are extra cautious. You just behave differently, you act differently and you react differently. After a breakup, you’ll start doing things without even knowing. But, the main reason behind this is the pain you’ve suffered from the breakup.
Women Who’ve Been Hurt Too Many Times Do These 8 Things (Without Even Knowing!):
- You doubt everything.
YES, you’ll have second thoughts about everything. You doubt the intentions of the guy who shows interest in you. You never really think about the possibility of him being serious about you, because that is how much you’ve been let down in the past. And, unfortunately, you assume things about men who maybe genuinely interested in you.
- You never have anything good to say.
You never have anything good to say, even if a guy is seemingly perfect. YES, even if that guy is awesome, you’re always looking for a catch to save yourself from trouble. Even when your friends date a good guy, you want to look for bad things about him as much as you want to be happy for your friends. The bottom line – cheating and leaving men made you paranoid and now you’re never really fully satisfied.
- You accept sadness (just like it’s meant for you).
This means that all the heartbreaks and ignorant behavior of men you loved has left you sad. And now, you don’t allow happiness to “come” in your mind and body anymore. You’re also much better at coping with sadness than you used to be before all the heartbreaks. Bottom line – this means that you accept sadness and keep it like it is meant to be for you.
- Romance?! That’s funny to you…
What’s romance?! No, that’s not for me! Even romantic movies become crappy and couples kissing on roadside become stupid for you. And, when a guy says something romantic to you, you just reply: “Yeah, right”. Bottom line – your love live start becoming hopelessly risky.
- Your keep secrets to yourself!
After a breakup, you usually stop trusting people and keep some secrets to yourself. Expectations and then disappointments have left you so hopeless of any meaningful relations that you decide to keep some things to yourself. WHY? Well, ladies, that’s easy to answer – because no one would use it against us. And, remember – you can never really know everything about people who have had their heart-broken one too many times.
- Love is like a joke to you!
You usually tell people that you’ll just die alone and keep hooking up when they ask you about your love status. And, of course – you start treating love like a joke and stop thinking seriously about it because that is what it has been made for you. Failing more than once often takes all your hopes down and there is no to blame for it except the people who failed you. Right?
- You hope for things to get better!
And last, but not least important – you always hope for things to get better. YES, despite being hopeless and rotten at the heart, you secretly hope for things to get better! Well, after all, we are humans who need love and attention, and we always hope for someone to heal all our wounds. Thank you for your time and don’t forget to share! Namaste!