Aries – you usually strive to succeed in everything! So, don’t leave romance behind this year. You just need to be careful to stay honest to your goals. Don’t forget to ask yourself – do you want to win a dating game or to actually play the game for as long as it takes to get you what you deserve? And remember – if emotional stability hasn’t been your win in the last year, this is a great time to lock up those commitment fears, analyze them in depth with a therapist and release them into creative energies that are meant to attract people who can complete you and not just compete with you. So, Aries – are you ready for some good time in 2017?
Taurus – you should be very careful, because you will be “hit” by a love bus this year when you stop holding grudges on all the people you cut off from your life, that you may still love – even if you cross the street or hide each time you see them pass by. And, remember – no one who keeps their heart guarded forever can stumble upon love easily again.
Gemini – can I ask you something: is there something you want to share about your hopes and dreams that is planted in the field of love? With Gemini, life is a spectacular science of bouncing off clouds – but no wonder few could keep up with those aerial roots when all you crave to do is lift off. People usually need an astronaut suit to follow you in life, because you tend to reach sky high and abandon concrete things for idealistic targets. But, you should remember that love will find you when you put one foot on the ground and make enough room in your flying machine for another person to jump in.
Cancer – you’ll find love WHEN you STOP obsessively stalking your exes’ and their new social media profiles, and feeding yourself on the cruel intention of invading the past. YES, sometimes it’s good to let go. And YES, we all know that you love to time travel and think about what’s been and what hasn’t, but thinking about the past and your old crush won’t ever get you new grounds to conquer. So, instead of taking one step forward and three steps back, try to cut down on the bad habits you incorporated into your love diet.
Leo – from your standing point, you’re the center of the Universe and you feel entitled to all of the gravitating attention that exists. And remember – it’s always good to stay in touch with your needs. But, you should try to bend your ears to other people’s voices this year. Can you do that. Compassion is a powerful asset and in the cards of love it’s the ace. You should make this journey a joint venture of feelings, fun, activities and shared experiences. Your big love might come out from a most unexpected place, the moment you silence your ego to receive all the attention and start spreading your own attention to what’s going on around you.
Virgo – you should open up your calendar for LOVE. You’re always busy doing something around the house, and you can easily get sucked into other people’s schedules or agendas ending up neglecting your own. So, this year, you should turn your tidiness away from your actual dressing room and onto your mental closet of capabilities. In 2017, you should “fuel” yourself with real connection. So, just spend some quality time with people you haven’t seen in a long time and embrace the unknown into getaways that will fill your adventurous spirit. The best things in life, and so in love, always happen at the border between places and things.
Libra – libras, you should know that love is hard to choose you when you have only so many projects and activities going on, right? You “put” starlight and charisma on everything you touch by your own nature. So, can you do me a favor – instead of bargaining for time alone and space, try working on a schedule this year that allows you to fit love in your tight schedule (without making it an endless game of speed dating). And remember – your heart knows what it wants, and your dream girl or guy could be right under your nose and not waiting for you somewhere far over the rainbow. You’re a natural seducer, so next time you get distracted by a million things to do or see, take some time to actually reply to that text message from someone who showed genuine interest in you. It’s very simple – just invest yourself in meaningful conversation and let yourself surprised by the serendipity of falling for the stranger who reads you like an open book!
Scorpio – we all know that there is absolutely nothing more unsettling for a potential partner than sitting down with a person who boils in frustration and regret. But, you already knew that, right Scorpio? So, it’s time to roll down to the gym, burn some angst or maybe release some tension with a massage therapist. Or, maybe you can stimulate your senses with a slow house yoga class or train for the marathon. A quick question – do you feel tired or resentful? Take this advice on how to reassemble your liveliness and desire for wanderlust and next time you go on a date take a deep breath each time you feel like pouring past relationship venom over dinner.
Sagittarius – rushing out seems to be your specialty, Sagittarius. YES, especially when it comes to the heart. And, your fear of grounding yourself in a potential love affair is blocking your way into the real, fiery and potentially life changing partnership you are craving for. Leaving before the lights are up in a relationship might save you hurt and remorse with a partner that’s not good for you. But, just think about it, what if you actually took the time to navigate the stages of a love bond one at a time instead of burning them all throughout the course of one week? Your desire for life and nature can attract a “good” match that will lure all your senses on the long run, but only if you let it. Some people are designed to run until they find someone as strong to run along with. But, you should know that running will always make you kick back into yourself, so this year – might as well just walk along a potential partner and let patience do its magic!
Capricorn – you should ask yourselves the following questions: when was the last time you did something exclusively for yourself? Does it hurt even to try out a couple new things that don’t cost a lot of money at the beginning of this new year? How about participate more actively in the love life you’d want to enhance? This is very important for you to remember – you need to invest in yourself if you want others to invest in you. Your favorite TV show won’t go anywhere. Well yes, and guess what? Once you hit the road for some more exciting adventure and fun, you might actually have someone to share those tiny, comfortable experiences with. As I said – just think about it for a moment.
Aquarius – you need to accept the fact that your need for personal space does not thrive on your fear of commitment. And, you need to let your inner tortured artist love and let live without abandoning relationships just because the pain makes you create. And, one last thing – you must understand that you can be brave and independent and a seeker and still coexist in the loving arms of a person who sees you as their forever. When you accept these 3 things, it will be the moment when you’ll give yourself permission to stay in love without fearing you have to sacrifice your identity.
Pisces – Pisces’s heart is just like a deep ocean of secrets. YES, and this ocean with secrets is what makes people attracted to them in the first place. You “attract” partners into your heavy waters. This year is a good start for you to work on opening up and embracing the challenge to say YES more than saying MAYBE.