Ladies and gentlemen, you must understand that making love doesn’t just have to be ordinary and I really think that it is time we learn what eastern cultures know for centuries. Intimate energy is the highest form of energy (the energy of creation and the energy of expression). And tantric intimacy embraces these two qualities. Harnessing the energy from the sacral chakra and allowing the energy to flow up and through the throat chakra. This is why quite literally it is said that without these two chakras, life itself would not exist. And, the main purpose of tantric intimacy is to awaken your Kundalini energy, the serpent energy running up your spine. The infamous snake known throughout ancient history, from the Bible to Buddha. Once unleashed, it rises up and activates your mind in the center of the brain. Where the spirit takes flight and arrives at the tree of life, allowing the enlightened one to travel between the three worlds.
- Lock your eyes and breath deeply.
Here’s what you need to do – you should start by facing each other and gazing deeply into each others’ eyes. NOTE: you should always begin with your clothes on. And REMEMBER – you need to focus on one eye (this keeps you intimately connected). As we all know, eyes are windows to the soul, so you are gazing into your lover’s soul, they into yours. NEVER look back and forth between the eyes, because you’ll not gain the connection needed. This teaches you to stay open with your partner mentally, physically and spiritually.
- The “Yab-yum” position.
First of all, you should know that Yab-yum is a Tibetan phrase that means “father mother”. And, I really think that you’ll be surprised when we tell you that this unique position allows for highest level of intimacy between you and your partner. You can either sit cross-legged across from your partner with your knees touching or sit with your legs wrapped around the other person’s torso. As you feel more comfortable you can then sit in your partner’s lap with your legs completely wrapped around each other. Then, you need to maintain your focus on your partner, looking into each others eyes and continue practicing the breathe in, breathe out technique. And now, you need to inhale deeply from your belly as shallow breathing depletes your energy more quickly. Continue this exercise as this will show you how to create a hold a higher vibration with your partner.
- You should synchronize your breathing
It’s very simple – breathe in together and exhale together. And then, you should move into breath exchange – you inhale when they exhale, then exhale when they inhale, as though you’re breathing each other in and out. Now, the female starts the cobra breath. This ancient breath technique was held secret for many years and is only acquired through word of mouth. Never has it been written down anywhere as it was known as a source of great power. Practiced for thousands of years, the breath pulls the Shakti (magnetic energy into the spine and changes the electro-magnetic properties of the cerebro-spinal fluid. Thus, allowing for the Kundalini energy to move up easily.
- You need to clear your mind of any thought
You must understand that our minds are constantly “loaded” with information of thoughts. Each time your mind wanders bring your attention back to your partner and focus. This allows for the deep level of intimacy and oneness to be experienced between the pair. Thank you for your time and don’t forget to share.
Sources and References included in this article – World Truth TV, 5 Methods to Achieve the Most Intense Tantric Intimacy (Other links included in their article – by LJ Vanier)