Ladies,, it’s very important for you not to ignore these warning signs! So, if your boyfriend does these 5 things to you, then you shouldn’t marry him.
Your guy doesn’t claim or proclaim you.
To be honest with you, I really think that we all know someone who will spend their time in limbo-like relationships with guys who won’t give them the girlfriend title, right? But, here’s the truth – if you’ve been dating a man for longer than six to nine months and he’s hasn’t made you an official part of his life, then I really think it’s time to move on with your life and find someone who’s better for you. And, do me a favor – STOP making excuses for why things aren’t progressing to the next level; you’ll only waste time, and your time is worth more than that.
Your guy suffers from addiction.
Ladies, there are plenty of honor badges to be earned by standing by your man when he’s fallen on hard times. But, be very careful, because if you stick with a man fighting demons, namely addiction, then you’re in for a huge disappointment. And, the addiction can range from less-severe, like cigarettes, to major issues such as drug, alcohol and $ex. The reason why you should be careful is because someone who suffers from an addiction will do anything — and I mean anything — to get their fix, even at the expense of those they love.
Your guy gets violent, even if he doesn’t hit you.
Yes, he gets violent – even if he doesn’t hit you! Well, you probably think that this is a no-brainer, but it actually isn’t. Unfortunately, many women around the world who’ve been in abusive relationships have immense strength, only to shut down in the presence of her partner’s anger and violence. Even if you’re a strong woman, you’ll freeze when your guy goes into a “rage” mode – throwing things, damaging property and calling you names. All women should know that this sign is a deal-breaker because even though your guy didn’t put his hands on you. No healthy relationship can be built off a foundation of fear because you never know when his actions may escalate.
Your guy cheats on you.
Unfortunately, many people will say this point is debatable because lots of couples who have fidelity issues repair their relationship and end up in a better than where they were pre-cheating. But, I think it’s not the act of cheating that’s the deal-breaker here – it’s the disrespect, broken trust and significant risk to your health. With all the risks that hang in the balance for just a tiny bit of pleasure, it’s entirely inconsiderate and selfish when a man cheats on you. You should ask yourself – do you want someone who puts his wants before your needs, like security and trust?
Your guy gaslights you.
This word means that someone is trying to change your memory or perception of events in their favor, making you feel crazy or like you’ve forgotten something. So, when is gaslighting a deal-breaker? That’s easy to answer – when it happens. A man who resorts to manipulative tactics to have his way or “win” an argument will continue to play mind games and be dishonest with you.